The Hidden Cost of Pride

UGC Porfolio Tips
Written By Jennifer Alford

Why UGC Creators Miss Out on Opportunities They'll Never Know About

I had this conversation with a UGC creator recently that got me thinking about something I used to tell my high school students all the time - and it applies perfectly to the creator economy.

This creator shared their portfolio (which was actually pretty good content-wise), but when I mentioned that the presentation could use some tweaking to look more professional, their response was: "This portfolio has landed me dozens of collaborations."

And you know what? I believe them. But here's the thing that keeps me up at night - what about the opportunities they didn't get?

Lost Opportunity: Where two roads divide…

Consider the “Defended Approach” to your portfolio VS “Growth Mindset” of continually learning to be better, to showcase your services better, and to gain insight from others.

The Opportunities You'll Never Know You Lost

When I taught high school computer classes, I constantly reminded my students about their social media presence. Not because I wanted to be the fun police, but because they had no idea what doors might never open because of a poorly timed post or unprofessional profile.

The same principle applies to UGC creators and their portfolios, websites, and overall presentation.

Brands rarely tell you why they didn't choose you. They don't send rejection emails explaining that your portfolio was too hard to navigate or that the excessive animations made it look unprofessional. They just... move on to the next creator.

Think about it from a brand's perspective. They're scrolling through dozens, maybe hundreds of creator profiles. They have maybe 10 seconds to make a first impression call. If your portfolio takes too long to load, is hard to navigate, or looks amateur, they're not going to stick around to discover your amazing content


Why Pride Becomes Our Biggest Enemy

Here's where pride sneaks in and becomes our worst enemy.

When someone gives us constructive feedback about our presentation, our natural response is to defend what we've created. "But it's worked for me!" or "I've gotten X number of collaborations with this!"

I get it. I really do. Nobody likes to hear that something they've put effort into could be better.

But here's what I learned from years of teaching: the students who were most open to feedback were the ones who went the furthest. The ones who got defensive often stayed stuck in the same patterns.

The Math of Missed Opportunities

“You’ll never know what opportunities you miss if you don’t allow yourself to be questioned. “

Let's say you've landed 20 collaborations with your current portfolio. That's awesome! But what if a more polished presentation could have gotten you 50? Or 100?

You'll never know what you didn't get because brands don't tell you.

This isn't about being mean or critical - it's about recognizing that in a competitive space like UGC, every detail matters. Your content might be incredible, but if your presentation doesn't match that quality, you're potentially leaving money on the table.

What Brands Actually Look For (But Won't Tell You)

After working with various business owners and seeing how they make decisions, here's what I've noticed they really want to see:

Clean, professional presentation - They want to quickly understand who you are and what you offer

Easy navigation - If they can't find your rates or contact info in 30 seconds, they're gone

Consistent branding - Everything should feel cohesive and intentional

Clear work samples - They want to see your best work upfront, not buried under animations

Simple contact process - Make it brain-dead simple for them to reach out

The UGC Creator's Dilemma

I see this pattern constantly with UGC creators:

  1. Creator makes portfolio/website

  2. Gets some success with it

  3. Receives feedback about improvements

  4. Dismisses feedback because "it's working"

  5. Stays stuck at current level instead of growing

The tricky part is that you can't measure what didn't happen. Those brand collaborations that never reached out? You don't even know they existed.

How to Swallow Your Pride and Level Up

Here's how to approach feedback when your ego wants to fight back:

Ask yourself: "What if they're right?" - Even if you don't agree, consider the possibility that outside perspective might see something you don't

Look at the bigger picture - Yes, your current approach is working, but could it work better?

Test small changes - You don't have to overhaul everything at once. Try one suggestion and see what happens

Remember your goals - Do you want to be right, or do you want more opportunities?

Consider the source - If someone who works with brands regularly gives you feedback, maybe listen

The Animation Example

Going back to that creator's portfolio - it had great content, but the excessive animations made it feel like a PowerPoint presentation. Most brands won't tell you this directly, but here's what they're thinking:

  • "This looks amateur"

  • "It's distracting from the actual work"

  • "It takes too long to load"

  • "It's hard to focus on what they're offering"

They'll just click away and move to the next creator who presents their work more professionally.

Questions Every UGC Creator Should Ask Themselves

Am I open to feedback, or am I just looking for validation?

What opportunities might I be missing because of my current presentation?

If a brand told me my portfolio looked unprofessional, would I fix it or defend it?

Am I more interested in being right or in growing my business?

What would I think if I saw my portfolio for the first time with fresh eyes?

The Bottom Line

Success isn't just about what you've achieved - it's also about what you could achieve if you removed the barriers in your way.

Your portfolio might have gotten you dozens of collaborations, but what if a better one could get you hundreds? You'll never know unless you're willing to set your pride aside and make improvements.

The brands that didn't reach out to you because of first impressions? They're not going to send you a polite note explaining why. They just moved on to someone else.

Don't let pride cost you opportunities you'll never even know you missed.

What You Can Do Right Now

Get honest feedback - Ask someone outside the UGC space to look at your portfolio and tell you what they think

Time your portfolio - How long does it take to load? How long to find your contact info?

Check on mobile - Most brands are scrolling on their phones

Remove distractions - If it doesn't help brands understand your value, consider removing it

Make it stupid simple - Can someone understand what you do and how to hire you in 30 seconds?

Remember, being coachable isn't a weakness - it's a superpower. The creators who are willing to evolve and improve are the ones who end up with the most opportunities.

Don't let your pride keep you from reaching your full potential.

What's your take on this? Have you ever received feedback that stung but ultimately helped you grow? I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments.

Don't let pride cost you brand deals

(that you don’t even know you are missing….)

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@juliaphillips__ Replying to @ellie small 🎀 hope this is helpful! Breaking down soon many details on what to include in your portfolio as a new ugc creator (with examples). Let me know what questions you have! #ugc #ugccreator #ugcportfolio #newmom #firsttimemom #sahm #stayathomemom ♬ original sound - Julia | UGC + first time mom
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